In Loving Memory

Eddie Rao

Resident of Boston, Massachusetts
January 20, 1933 - August 12, 2024

Obituary

Eddie Rao, longtime resident of Boston, MA, passed away after a life beautifully lived. A devoted caregiver and storyteller, Eddie Rao had a gift for making people feel seen, valued, and loved. We are grateful for every moment shared.

Created with love by Zoey Smith

Age 91
Born in San Francisco, CA
Lived in Boston, MA
Served in the United States Army

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Life Story

A Life Remembered

Eddie Rao lived a life defined by love, purpose, and connection to the people around them.

Early Years

Growing up, Eddie Rao was known as the heart of the household. They were the first to offer help and the last to leave a gathering. Their early years shaped the remarkable person they would become.

Family & Relationships

Eddie Rao is survived by beloved family members who were the center of their world.

Life & Interests

Eddie Rao found great joy in simple pleasures — good food, great company, music, and being outdoors in Boston.

Favorites

Coffee in the morning, walks in the park, family dinners, and a good book.

Special Moments

Family gatherings, holidays, and quiet evenings at home stand out as the moments Eddie Rao treasured most.

Milestones

Marriage, parenthood, career achievements, and a lifetime of service to family and community.

Legacy

Those who knew Eddie Rao will carry forward the lessons they taught — to be kind, to be present, and to love without reservation. That is the truest legacy one can leave.

Favorite Quote

I have found that if you love life, life will love you back.

Events

FUNERAL SERVICE

Tulip Garden Funeral Home

August 4, 2023 9:00 AM – 2:00 PM

Public Event

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Event Name: Funeral Service
Event Information: Public Event
938 Howard Street, San Francisco, CA, USA

CELEBRATION OF LIFE

Grace Cathedral

August 11, 2023 3:00 PM – 7:00 PM

Public Event

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Event Name: Celebration of Life
Event Information: Public Event
938 Howard Street, San Francisco, CA, USA

Eulogies

A Dear Friend

Family and friends, we are gathered here to celebrate the life of Eddie Rao, a person whose warmth and kindness left an indelible mark on everyone they touched. Born in 1933 and raised with strong values, Eddie grew into someone who embodied compassion in every sense of the word. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, Eddie had an uncanny ability to make every person feel seen and valued.

Throughout their life, Eddie gave generously — of their time, their laughter, and their love. They were the first to arrive when help was needed and the last to leave when someone needed comfort. The world of Boston, MA is quieter without them, but the echoes of their kindness will never fade.

As we say farewell to Eddie Rao, let us remember not the loss, but the extraordinary life they lived. May we carry forward their example — to love deeply, serve faithfully, and leave every room a little better than we found it.

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Tributes

Linda Castillo

Tuesday, March 10, 2026 5:33 AM

Eddie Rao touched my heart in ways I cannot fully express. I am so grateful our paths crossed. Their memory will live on in every life they touched, including mine. Wishing the family peace and comfort in the days ahead.

James Holloway