In Loving Memory

Nolan Hayes

Resident of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
September 2, 1955 - November 30, 2020

Obituary

With heavy hearts we say farewell to Nolan Hayes of Philadelphia, PA. Nolan Hayes built a life rich in relationships, accomplishments, and service. Their warmth, wisdom, and humor will remain with us always as we honor the incredible life they led.

Created with love by Zoey Smith

Age 65
Born in San Francisco, CA
Lived in Philadelphia, PA
Served in the United States Army

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Life Story

A Life Remembered

Nolan Hayes lived a life defined by love, purpose, and connection to the people around them.

Early Years

Growing up, Nolan Hayes was known as the heart of the household. They were the first to offer help and the last to leave a gathering. Their early years shaped the remarkable person they would become.

Family & Relationships

Nolan Hayes is survived by beloved family members who were the center of their world.

Life & Interests

Nolan Hayes found great joy in simple pleasures — good food, great company, music, and being outdoors in Philadelphia.

Favorites

Coffee in the morning, walks in the park, family dinners, and a good book.

Special Moments

Family gatherings, holidays, and quiet evenings at home stand out as the moments Nolan Hayes treasured most.

Milestones

Marriage, parenthood, career achievements, and a lifetime of service to family and community.

Legacy

Those who knew Nolan Hayes will carry forward the lessons they taught — to be kind, to be present, and to love without reservation. That is the truest legacy one can leave.

Favorite Quote

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched — they must be felt with the heart.

Events

FUNERAL SERVICE

Tulip Garden Funeral Home

August 4, 2023 9:00 AM – 2:00 PM

Public Event

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CELEBRATION OF LIFE

Grace Cathedral

August 11, 2023 3:00 PM – 7:00 PM

Public Event

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Eulogies

Nolan's Daughter

Family and friends, we are gathered here to celebrate the life of Nolan Hayes, a person whose warmth and kindness left an indelible mark on everyone they touched. Born in 1955 and raised with strong values, Nolan grew into someone who embodied compassion in every sense of the word. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, Nolan had an uncanny ability to make every person feel seen and valued.

Throughout their life, Nolan gave generously — of their time, their laughter, and their love. They were the first to arrive when help was needed and the last to leave when someone needed comfort. The world of Philadelphia, PA is quieter without them, but the echoes of their kindness will never fade.

As we say farewell to Nolan Hayes, let us remember not the loss, but the extraordinary life they lived. May we carry forward their example — to love deeply, serve faithfully, and leave every room a little better than we found it.

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Tributes

Angela Brooks

Tuesday, March 10, 2026 5:33 AM

There are no words that truly do justice to what Nolan Hayes meant to all of us. A life lived with so much love and purpose. We will miss them every single day. Sending the family all the warmth in my heart.

Robert Kim